Really the only similarity between the man I
decrease in love
with and the man you will be now could be that person. I may know your smile, but aside from that, you may as well be a stranger in my experience. Every person evolves as they get older, but for this reason I wish you’d get back to the person you had previously been:

1. 
   You had your own priorities directly.
   
   You cared regarding the career, pals, household and me. You have made time for essential requirement you will ever have, and you never helped me feel an afterthought or a weight. That was the person we as soon as knew, the good news is your career is actually shot, everyone have died, and you also’ve place your family members through hell. For myself, well, you revealed me personally precisely how little I meant to you, nonetheless it nevertheless got everything in us to leave.
2. 
   You didn’t care how many other individuals thought.
   
   The sole view that mattered ended up being your very own, and I cherished that in regards to you. You probably didn’t try to impress individuals or change yourself depending on whom you happened to be with. There is a constant attemptedto change the individuality only to fit in. You were undoubtedly yourself, regrettably, I can’t state the same thing in regards to you now.
3. 
   You addressed myself the way in which we earned.
   
   At least, the boy I fell so in love with did. The man I finished things with was anything but date content. The guy took me totally as a given and forgot just how to appreciate what he had. You used to lift me upwards, however in the end, you have made me personally feel just like I found myself nothing. Ultimately, we recognized that if you cannot address me right, then you certainly weren’t worth me — not additional way around.
4. 
   You’re type to many other individuals.
   
   You have not simply altered the way you address me — you altered the manner in which you address every person. I regularly contemplate you therefore a great guy, you’ve become an overall total jerk. The man we dated had been sort and sweet, but this new version of you merely a jerk to any or all around him. I suppose it really is true what people say: « Monkey sees, monkey perform. » Your brand-new buddies actually contour the newest you.
5. 
   You cared towards future.
   
   Today all you have to accomplish is actually reside in when. If you live everyday like it’s your finally, what are the results when it’s not your own final? What will happen when you have no money for the next day? You still have to policy for if the next day comes. We in the offing an entire existence collectively, while put it out into the blink of an eye. So now you wish anything very different in your future, and sadly, i will not take it.
6. 
   You’re a difficult employee.
   
   So now you only seem idle. You had the head on straight, nevertheless left the determined man you once were behind you. You ended attempting to work and merely planned to bum around day-by-day, consuming along with your friends to no end. You went from a man with his work collectively to the child which peaked in the 20s in just certain short several months.
7. 
   You weren’t self-centered.
   
   When we began dating all that you wanted were to create me pleased, however now you cann’t care and attention less precisely how personally i think. It’s everything about you. You remaining everyone just who always make a difference in your lifetime behind you. You have come to be a narcissist whon’t love just how his actions affect others. You used to be when very offering, nevertheless now all you could carry out is get.
8. 
   You put energy into becoming a
   great boyfriend
   .
   
   It did not issue just who we were with — you had been never ever nervous showing exactly how much you cherished me personally. You really cared on how we thought as well as how you managed myself. You thought we earned an effective man and that means you had been a guy. Getting a boyfriend ended up being always important to you, although new you merely does not care to try.
9. 
   You never thought you used to be better than anyone else.
   
   I didn’t adore an egomaniac, but that is exactly what you became. Slowly, as time passes, you started to genuinely believe that you’re much better than your lifelong pals and also better than me personally. You had a unique group and therefore caused a fresh, better you — at the least, that’s what you thought.
10. 
    You had been trustworthy.
    
    I leaned for you and you leaned on myself. You had beennot just trustworthy in our union, though; you had been a damn good friend. You cared towards people in yourself and happened to be usually truth be told there whenever they needed you. The people you cherished could depend on you, the good news is whenever they need help, you’re no place that can be found. It’s like someday you’re there and simply gone next.